I don't know when I started letting my standards of cleanliness slip..oh wait, yes I do...almost 22 months ago! I found something else to occupy every minute of my day....an adorable, chubby "mini-me!" and every day since has been one a little dustier, dirtier and grimer than the one before...I guess it's because, if I am being truly honest, I don't really notice the dust bunnies anymore. I rarely have time to sit and watch TV, so the layer of dust on the screen really doesn't affect my view of it. Scout really does a pretty damn good job of keeping the kitchen floor crumb free and I'm not ashamed to move a chair or two in order to give her access to the space under the table. I'm usually so exhausted by the time I get to shower that I am so greatful for the 10 minutes of alone time that I refuse to waste it worrying about the grime on the walls in there. Truly, I have something way more fun, important, and exciting to focus on and to spend time on...Ryder James. Yep, I am using him as my excuse for my less than sparkling clean home. Turns out, I am not "Wonder Mom" I can't keep my home in tip top shape and still have the energy to play with my son, so I've had to admit defeat and choose and I choose Ryder!
I found this poem today and it seems to fit with my philosopy perfectly....
All that aside...if anyone wants to chip in to get me a "house keeper" I'm not to proud to take donations! ha ha ha...seriously. :)
The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow,
But children grow up, as I've learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.
~ Ruth Hulbert Hamilton
House cleaning can wait until you retire...keep enjoying that cute little guy and take the time to do other things for yourself. I came to this realization years ago. A clean house does not make a happy home...or a happy person. :)
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